Destiney Renee Nicely

22, of Indianapolis, passed away May 27,2016. She was a 2012 graduate of Herron High School.

Destiney liked to go camping and boating when she could, but always loved to read. She also enjoyed spending time with her family, especially her grandparents and sisters.

She is preceded in death by her: dad, Jimmy Dean Nicely; brother, Jimmy Jr.; great-grand mom, Patricia Berry; great great-grandparents, Hubert and Mary Lynch; and uncle, Michael Nicely.

Destiney is survived by her: sisters, Suzanna and Trinity Nicely;mother, Misty Pressly; grandparents, Shelly and Gary Harris; grandma, Donna Hanson; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Services will be 12pm on Tuesday, May 31, 2016 at Legacy Cremation & Funeral Services – Lawrence, 5215 N. Shadeland Avenue, with visitation from 10am until the time of service.

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  1. Dear Family:
    We, the families of The Compassionate Friends, send you our heartfelt condolences on Destiney’s passing.
    The Compassionate Friends is an international grief support group for parents, grandparents and siblings who have suffered the heartbreaking loss of a child. Our only mission is to provide comfort, hope and support to every family experiencing the death of a son or daughter, brother or sister, or grandchild, and to help others better assist the grieving family.
    We meet monthly on the first Tuesday at the First Baptist Church, 99 W. Main St, Greenwood, IN 46142 and on the third Thursday at the Faith Apostolic Church, 1212 E. 116th St., Carmel, IN 46032.
    If and when you are ready to do so, please join us for either, or both, meetings.
    We Need Not Walk Alone. We are The Compassionate Friends.

    The Compassionate Friends
    Central Indiana Chapter
    (317) 250-0351 (Jodie)
    [email protected]

  2. We were such a bright,beautiful young lady taken way to soon.R.I.H. Baby Girl til we meet again!!!!

  3. Though you didn’t know me as an adult I was around when you were born and though I wasn’t able to know you on this planet I hope I see you in another life, for I am she we would of been friends, I love your Mother and I hope to see her soon, I will give her pictures of you as a baby that I have had for many years, you will be missed by many I know sweet Destiny, peace is with you now and always

  4. Shelly and Garry and family
    Im very sorry for your loss. I only knew Destney as a child but watched her grow up on social media and wish the family could have stayed together so we could have all grew older together. Love and miss you all. If you need anything please let us know
    Dale, Tabby, Tommy and Hannah

  5. Rest in peace destiny life is not going to be the same but I can tell you this I will watch over your grandmother here on there that you watch over her from above

  6. I don’t really know or understand why ? About your death ? It was uncalled for ! I know I felt very left out at your funeral like I never was there for you But I know & you know & The Lord knows I was ! I will miss our talks our laugher our love Grandaughter I wish you would’ve had a burial ( even at Washington Park by Uncle Jesse ) so I’d have somewhere to put flowers & sit and reminisce on your life I will always Love You I will Deeply miss you and when I get your ashes I will hold them close to my heart Babygirl ( Grandaughter ) RIH Destiney Nicely Forever Grandma Donna ( I wish there was a way for me to be unblocked from your Faceboik page so I could always be able to see your timeline I know you blocked but I was just trying to help you ) But live on Babygirl your in the mighty hands of God Grandma D

  7. Your truly missed and your family is in my prayers. I wish I would have found out sooner. I missed out on saying goodbye. I love you fly high girlie 💞

  8. I miss you so much. I know you are at peace now. You have always been my 👼🏻. Love hugs and kisses

  9. I miss you My Angel 😇💟💟💋💋 Fly high with Uncle Jesse your both looking down watching over us 😇👼👫 Deeply Loved and Missed 😍😘😘

  10. To young to be gone I miss your thoughtful ways; Always full of life with me anyways Heart who always thought of others ! I just understand what was going on especially when you were not around me I know your life wasn’t great but that’s your Grandma Shellydidn’t want to deal with you but let her pride get in the to ask or tell I know you would tell me she didn’t want you there that her house was getting repoed so its mystery about your death especially when your grandma was a nurse I pray God reveal the truth to me !!!!!!!

  11. I meant to say when you come around Thers more to the truth then what’s been told autopsy should have been performed on your real cause of death 🙁

  12. Happy 4th of July I miss you so much I remember when we go downtown and watch the fireworks RIH Babygirl 🙁

  13. Love you always and miss you so much. Miss your daily phone calls.😢📞☎️
    Grandpa and grandma

  14. My thoughts are with you Baby girl 😘😘 Miss you 💟💟 🎈🎈

  15. I’m so sorry Destiney Your Family on your Moms side didn’t know you was in the hospital from May 10 2016 May 27 2016 We would’ve been there everyday So we didn’t even get to say Bye when your grandparents ( Harris ) decided to put you on life support & take you off I don’t get why they didn’t try kidney dyeallous spelled wrong ) Grandma Shelly told me they found you that morning dead in your room on May 27 2016 Thst was So disrespectful to not tell the other side of the Family " We besides your mom you had a lot of family members that had a right to know You didn’t die from drug overdose with everything that was supposly going on with you & your family members were not a bunch of Drug & alcoholics on your moms side your dad died from drug overdoses But Shelly lied to me I’m so sorry your death was so in vein you weren’t even on life support long enough Sad how ppl believe everything Shelly said & your other family was invokovef in your life always !!!!!’ Love & Miss you & im not done finding out more info How was it your mom had to sign papers for funeral home but not when they decided to take you off life support & if I could’ve got a hold of your mom in time you would not have been cremated 💓💋💋😥😥😥😥😥😥 Then your grandparents won’t get back with me about having some of your things for memory

  16. I miss you sooo much 📞☎️🏊🏊💃💃💟💟💟

  17. I miss you sooo much 📞☎️🏊🏊💃💃💟💟💟

  18. It has been 2 months and I still miss you just as much. I still open your bedroom door to check on you. I found some clothes from when you were about 10 and I was putting them in a yard sale I held them tight and started to cry. I found your camera and can’t wait to see what awesome pictures are on it. I love you always and forever. Grandma😪😥

  19. I miss you so much Daughter 😢😢😢😢 💟💟💟💟

  20. We all miss you Soo much. Love grandma,grandpa,Suzanna and Trinity.💞😇 💋

  21. Miss you so much 😢😢💟💟💟💋💋💋

  22. Missing you so much 😢 I seen the most beautiful butterfly the other day haven’t seen one for along time it was yellow with black trimming on its wings it kept still for the longest time on my window cel I smiled and knew that was from you to let me know your a beautiful angel now 😇💋💋💟💟💟

  23. We miss you so much our hearts ache and tears flow. 🐬🎃💔🌠🐛😥😇

  24. Happy Halloween Destiney 🎃🎃 😥😥😘😘😘😘 Missed you at our weenie roast this year 🔥🌙☝️☝💓💓

  25. Today was Thanksgiving. !! I wanted to take a moment to let you know grandaughter, I’m Thankful for the 22 yrs 💞 God gave me with you 🙏 I missed you at Great- Grandma Coffeys today, Deeply Loved & Missed 😢 😍 Grandma D

  26. Merry Christmas in Heaven 🎄🎅 Love & miss you so much 💟💟😥😥😘😘

  27. I love you & miss you deeply I cannot believe your gone Grandaughter Destiney Nicely & Doesn’t seem possible a year 😇 Fly High BUTTERFLY 😍😚😚🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈RIG

  28. It has been a year now. I miss you so much. I know you are no longer in pain,mentally or physically. We all will be together one day. Love you grandma and grandpa..🦋😥

  29. Grandpa misses you so much his heart broke and he had to have it fixed. I am sure you were watching over us today. 🦋😥💞

  30. Happy Halloween Grandaughter 🎃🎃🎃🎃 Love an miss you so much ❣😣

  31. Happy Halloween Grandaughter 🎃🎃🎃🎃 Love an miss you so much ❣😣

  32. Remembering you grandaughter on your 26th birthday today 😇 fly high my Beautiful butterfly 🦋 love an miss you 💜

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